In a gay couple, say A and B.. How do I phrase this? It’s a bit confusing, let me sort this out in my head 1st.
Both born as males, A and B are dating each other. Do gays date/love/sex the same sex because they:
- want/love that guy as a person – it just happen that person is a guy (same sex)?
- feel/think/know they are supposed to be another sex, that is a female. Like “I’m a female born in a male body”?
Some of us tend to assume that gays are guys who think they are or they want to be females because such guys behave like “a slut” (as 1 of my ex-colleagues put it) or a super feminine guy but what about guys who take the male role in a relationship?
Some of us also assume that a lesbian couple is because the gal who has short hair and muscles is trying to be a guy, the other girl is seeing this tomboy because she has had her heart broken by guys.
Does it have to be 1 of couple taking the female-male role? Some call it the submissive-dominant role. Or the one being poked-the one doing the poking.
If it’s a gay couple, maybe they take turns at role playing? And does it have to have role playing?
Do you mind if your friend is really gay?
Having gay friends are fun for a gal like me. Most of them love shopping and care about health/beauty. They also have lots of gossip. But some can be really bitchy. There’s a saying that most great guys are either married or gay.
Would it be as much fun (as in hanging out, chilling) for you (if you are a guy) to have a lesbian friend?
Would you feel awkward, even scared (and you automatically move further away from the person) if you have a same sex friend who happens to be into same sex relationship?
Would you jump and shriek if he/she touches you when talking?
Would you run as fast as lightning when he/she fondles your thigh?
Would you talk bad about him/her and preach “God save him/her, let God guide him/her to the right path” to your friends, relatives and practically everyone you see?