While having dinner with Chai, Nat, NeverZzz and Mich at Swensen’s (waiting for pics from NeverZzz), NeverZzz advised Chai, “If you want a bf, you must put yourself out there.”
Hhmmm.. He continued, “In a research, guys would accept a girl easier than guys chase girls.”
“So you mean, guys are cheap?”
“Noooooo! It’s just that guys wouldn’t reject you if you talk with him. If a girl talks - a stranger - talks to me also, I wouldn’t ignore her. I would chat with her lah.”
“Oooo…”
We all looked at his gf, Nat. Nat was eyeing him from the corner of her eyes.
“So you really would accept her?” I asked him.
He looked at his gf, Nat beside him and shrugged, “Not accept lar hahah… but I would chat with her la, no problem with that what!”
“So you gals should chase guys instead of waiting for them to chase you,” he reasoned. “Because guys chase gals also because the gals gave signal,” he wagged his bushy eyebrows, “so the guys get encouragement to go talk to the girl. Mostly lar. But I don’t need encouragement.”
He smirked. “My friends told me, to chat with any girl also can.”
“Ho!!”
“So… Nat was the 1 who eye you last time?”
“Ya lah! HAHAH!”
Nat punched him lightly on his arm.
“You also larh, you love books. So you go to Book fairs,” he said to me.
“How do you know I love to read?” I asked, surprised. Must be my thick spec, innocent, blur face look & not into gym lifestyle.
“Ha…. I know!”
Book Fairs actually are only held once or twice per year in PWTC! I’ve been waiting for it for ages for cheap magazines but nowadays, I’ve found a new hobby - watching entertainment online! :p
I agree - putting yourself out there increases the chance of getting a boyfriend.
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Car, BraveSafe & I were talking animatedly about something.
Out of the blue, BraveSafe asked me, “Do you actually prefer girls?”
I looked at her, eyes wide, “Ha?”
Everyone was talking at almost the same time, I turned back to Car and continued our topic. I didn’t mean to be rude or avoid her question but I had forgotten to reply BraveSafe.
Just because I’m not dating anyone right now or had ever been deeply in love, it doesn’t mean I’m a lesbian. I just haven’t met the one who makes my heart beat faster, get giddy with happiness and feel my heart is going to burst from having so such fullness.
Just because someone has dated or is dating or even married, it doesn’t mean that someone is into his/her partner. Just as having a marriage certificate just means you got married, it doesn’t mean that you are loyal to your marriage.
But then, I love collecting fashion pictures - everyone close will know that I have lots of pretty gals pics - more so than guys pictures. There are just soooooooooo many beautiful females around, more so than handsome males. No offense, guys - it’s a fact :p Or it’s just that there are more online pictures of females than males.
♥♥♥ Happy Virginity’s Day! ♥♥♥
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